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Politics has become so important that we treat politicians—Republican or Democrat—like monarchs with control over the nation's soul.

Jonah Goldberg
Nov 4, 2020
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The day before Election Day, Reuters ran a story about the personal toll politics has taken on some peoples’ lives. 

Mayra Gomez told her 21-year-old son she’d be voting for Trump. He essentially disowned his own mother in response. Gomez says he told her: “You are no longer my mother.” 

Gayle McCormick, a 77-year-old woman, left her husband because he voted for Trump. 

Whenever I read or hear about such things, my first instinct is to wonder whether something more than politics is at work. Families with no other major issues tend not to do this sort of thing over politics alone.  

Regardless, I think everyone can agree that politics feels more divisive than at any other point since at least the 1960s. In Divided We Fall: America’s Secession Threat and How to Restore Our Nation, my colleague David French makes a powerful case that the country could be heading toward dissolution—not so much a hot civil war as a bitter domestic cold war leading to an acrimonious divorce through secession. He’s hardly alone. With varying degrees of celebration or sorrow, various thinkers on the right and left have warned that America today looks a good deal like it did in the 1850s. 

I agree with French and others that the situation is dire, even if I’m less than convinced that 1850s America is a useful guide for 2020s America. 

The state we’re in is what political scientists, philosophers and psychoanalysts call “overdetermined.” Something is overdetermined when there’s more than one sufficient explanation for it. 

World War I may have had a single precipitating cause—the assassination of Archduke Franz Ferdinand—but chances are the war would have happened for a slew of other reasons even if the assassin was hit by a bus before he fired the gun. 

So it is with our current mess. Americans have been self-sorting for a long time. We tend to live among people who see the world the way we do, and therefore we have a difficult time understanding how anybody could see the world differently. In a Pew Research Center study, almost 80 percent of Donald Trump and Joe Biden supporters reported having few or no friends who supported the other guy.

Organized religion is receding as a binding force in our culture, and for many people, politics—in the form of nationalism or socialism or some other ism—is filling the void. Even for the religious, the animosity toward religion arouses a response that infects religion with political partisanship.

Social media tricks our brains in all sorts of unhealthy ways. Whole business models have been constructed to make money by constantly making people angry at other people. 

I could go on. But some of these causes are not easily reversed, and I, for one, wouldn’t want to live in a country where the government had the power or inclination to try. We don’t want to start the forced integration of communities along ideological lines. Social media companies could certainly work harder at not being part of the problem. But again, I don’t trust the government to impose alleged “solutions” from above. I certainly think America could benefit from another religious Great Awakening, but the last thing I want to see is a government-run Office of Religious Revival. 

What vexes me most about these stories of families being torn apart by partisan politics is the underlying assumption shared by both sides. It’s a worldview that elevates politics—national politics—to the primary source of meaning in people’s lives. It reminds me less of the 1850s in America than of the 1680s in England.* Catholics felt that a Protestant on the throne would overturn everything they believed about their country, and vice versa. Today, we talk about a Republican or Democrat in office as if they were monarchs with control over the nation’s soul. 

I’m a conservative, so I’m enamored with smaller and more limited government anyway. But even accounting for that bias, I still think the answer is devaluing the currency of national politics. If you want stronger, more ambitious government, fine. Advocate for it at the local level, where the powers that be are more connected to the reality on the ground, and where political winners and losers have to look each other in the eye. 

Alternating between parties that want to unify a vast and diverse country under “one best way” is a recipe for perpetual strife. Politics should be about solving the specific problems that government is suited to solve, not defining our souls.

Correction, November 4: This column incorrectly referred to the “1860s in England” when it should have been 1680s.

Photos by Brendan Smialowski and Jim Watson / AFP via Getty Images.

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Dina
Nov 4, 2020

I'm struggling with this, Jonah, I really am. Before Trump, I read National Review religiously every day, and I read every blog article that Commentary posted; I also subscribed to both magazines. I saw writers and politicians I agreed with and respected criticize Trump vociferously. Then I watched as slowly but inexorably, the criticisms gradually became muted. I saw hypocrisy and double standards emerge as the people I admired now excused, downplayed, and/or ignored behavior and actions that would have sent them into fits of screaming rage if the president were a Democrat.

I assumed that once Trump was elected, the standard Republican officials that I liked would reign him in and never let him do the crazy things he has done. How very wrong I was. They all either resigned, were fired, went silent, or jumped aboard (except for Mitt Romney).

Worse, I saw my friends and family who had also fiercely opposed Trump gradually embrace him and even fall in love with him. I saw that the awful things Trump did or was responsible for simply didn't bother them:

1. Trump's deference to dictators (remember Obama's apology tour?).

2. His distancing of our allies (remember when Obama sent back Churchill's bust?). These first two changed our superpower status, something they would have cared passionately about in normal times. Something unthinkable that even Obama didn't accomplish.

3. His betrayal of the Kurds, leading to their slaughter.

4. His cynical manipulation of a desperate ally (Ukraine).

5. The pandemic. His handling of the pandemic cost God knows how many lives, and they just don't care. How can that be? How is the fear of the Green New Deal greater than horror at the loss of precious lives, at the grief over mass death? I don't see empathy or grief on the right over this; if you only follow right-wing media you would hardly know there is a pandemic. Is this seriously the pro-life party?

6. The immigration policy. How does forcibly separating children from their parents not bother them? How does it not bother them that 545 children have been orphaned because of that traumatic experience, that their parents were deported, possibly to never see their children again? This is like a wartime atrocity. It's a crime against humanity. Why are they so cool with it, cool enough that higher taxes bothers them more?

7. The intellectual dishonesty that leads to the aforementioned hypocrisy and double standards.

You see, I didn't change. They did. And so while I am still friends with all of them, I am struggling to respect them as I once did. I'm finding that I can't, and our relationships aren't the same anymore. I find myself avoiding them because everyone just assumes that the old conservative Republican me has transformed along with them, and conversations are like egg shell walking.

I haven't even touched on the unprecedented corruption, the firings, the pardons, the elimination of oversight, etc.

It makes me so sad that so many Americans don't care about what's really important. They sold their souls to an evil man.

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Laurie
Nov 4, 2020

It isn't the politics Jonah; it is the tolerance of cruelty. You must see that this is what is so disturbing for most of us who oppose Trump.

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